R015: KNOW WHEN TO CALL IT QUITS
DO YOU EVEN RESPECT YOURSELF?
Every person as an individual has to acknowledge that self-esteem is a big deal and peradventure you are a people-person, it’s not required of you to be a people-pleaser… Though both may be humble the difference is that ‘a people-person’ is wise and strategic! The choice is yours.
NOT EVERYTHING IS FOR EVERYONE!
In the beginning of time itself, God said, ‘let us make man in our own image’…. Fast forward to when Adam came to be; the loneliness didn’t please God and you know the rest of this history… Now, God in His magnificent understanding realized that having just animals alone wasn’t good enough for man and as such gave him, his kind—today, some have realized that their ‘kind’ isn’t good enough for them and have made self-sufficient replacement with just animals, so there you have it; not everything is for everyone. For the sake of those who lack spiritual humor, I’m not countering the amazing work of my Heavenly Father, I’m just buttressing on the gift of choice how it compliments every decision of our unique lives!
Let me be clear, I’m not opinionated neither am I a complete narcissist; I’m just realistic. Now having known that your self-worth/esteem is a big deal and not everything is for you, I believe that you would take time to understand that no matter how hard you try for anyone, only those who value you and your efforts would equally work towards sustenance of whatever you have with them—specifically speaking, you aren’t emotionally entitled to anyone and if you don’t snap out of that bootlicking lifestyle, you’d continue to be at the mercy of people’s feelings—bottom line is, you should know when to save yourself emotional stress and call it quits!!
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Omolola Odeniyi (popularly known as “NkemLola”) is the host of Razzor podcast. She is God’s leading lady; and a human smiley who loves work but cherishes sleep! She does not like noodles and cheese, just give her chocolate!