S042: Verbal Signs That Show We Are Not Listening

December 15, 2017

S042: Verbal Signs That Show We Are Not Listening

In the last episode, episode 41, I talked about the problems I have with listening. I held nothing back in that episode in my attempt to help you seek the truth for your self.  This episode, on the other hand, discusses the verbal signs that show we are not listening or being listened to. It also offers ways we could improve our listening abilities.

Episode Takeaways

In this episode, you will learn

  • 5 top verbal signs that show we are not listening,
  • ways to improve our listening abilities, and
  • about what to do when we see these signs in others.

Your Story reminds me of mine

One common verbal sign that shows a person is not listening is when (s)he jumps in to tell his/her story(that your story reminds him/her of) even before you share your experience. This is common to many of us, especially when we think we know alot.

This rarely helps. And more often that not, alienates the speaker from us. Another problem with this is that it does not afford us the time to listen to what the other person really has to say. We also do not gain new insight when we are always limited by our own experience.

One way out is to first understand that our paradigm or experience is not the only way to see life. We must come to terms with the fact that there are often more than one way to see the same thing.

S041 - Not Listening Social Media

This episode discusses four other common verbal signs that show we are not listening. Not only do I explain how they creep into our conversations, I discussed a number of approaches I have found effective in dealing with them.


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Samuel Adeoye



Samuel Adeoye (popularly known as “Se7en” or the “Startup Engineer”) is an entrepreneurship enthusiast and the lead podcaster at Podlobe. He is also a big fan of Manchester United.

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